mtm105
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Raised by a malignant narcissist mother. LOTS of NYC $$. Super resentments. Her Dad left her mom 1974 in NYC, disappearing for 2 years and worked. Owned a yacht.
I won’t get into her criminal history past 20 years. It’s quite extensive. Mind boggling. Not directly involving me. The system. 58 days in jail.
Addicted to alcohol & rage. And shoplifting. smh Minus the alcohol she’s palatable. She collects SS $ for “anxiety.” WTF is that?
I am setting boundaries knowing that she is a Sociopath. A boundary as simple as eating hamburgers. It’s a nightmare. The bun is wrong, it’s never cooked right, the flavor of the meat…the toppings. The pickles…even when ordering out.
Spaghetti & meatballs absolute fav. She weaponizes food.
It’s my cross to bare. I am aware of DSM IV narcisissm, at least. There begins the coping. I am very fortunate in retirement. Her behavior likely contributing to my 100% VA rating. $3,800 monthly tax free on top of pension. No property tax. No mortgage.
Not all narcissists are Sociopaths. All Sociopaths are narcissists. A Sociopath is one who shreds societal norms, likely from an abusive childhood.
Also, failure to adapt to military lifestyle. Unbelievable crap.
She has never threatened to damage my guitar gear. Thank G-d! Threatening sugar in gas tank, yes. Recently I filed a complaint for that. It’s kinda first time I stood up for myself, minus contacting child protection services 2X. She’s on probation. Likely get a phone call.
She is going to be PISSED OFF! And that’s how it is. Instead of taking responsibility and blame for her own actions, she’ll turn it around and find fault with me.
I won’t get into her criminal history past 20 years. It’s quite extensive. Mind boggling. Not directly involving me. The system. 58 days in jail.
Addicted to alcohol & rage. And shoplifting. smh Minus the alcohol she’s palatable. She collects SS $ for “anxiety.” WTF is that?
I am setting boundaries knowing that she is a Sociopath. A boundary as simple as eating hamburgers. It’s a nightmare. The bun is wrong, it’s never cooked right, the flavor of the meat…the toppings. The pickles…even when ordering out.
Spaghetti & meatballs absolute fav. She weaponizes food.
It’s my cross to bare. I am aware of DSM IV narcisissm, at least. There begins the coping. I am very fortunate in retirement. Her behavior likely contributing to my 100% VA rating. $3,800 monthly tax free on top of pension. No property tax. No mortgage.
Not all narcissists are Sociopaths. All Sociopaths are narcissists. A Sociopath is one who shreds societal norms, likely from an abusive childhood.
Also, failure to adapt to military lifestyle. Unbelievable crap.
She has never threatened to damage my guitar gear. Thank G-d! Threatening sugar in gas tank, yes. Recently I filed a complaint for that. It’s kinda first time I stood up for myself, minus contacting child protection services 2X. She’s on probation. Likely get a phone call.
She is going to be PISSED OFF! And that’s how it is. Instead of taking responsibility and blame for her own actions, she’ll turn it around and find fault with me.
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