AAHIHaveNoIdeaWhatImDoing
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women at our gigs actually put on MORE clothes after we play...
Hee hee hee!
That's the way it should be if you actually want "fans". You want strangers to go out of their way and drop their money to see you. When you can achieve that, you're doing something good. Your girlfriends and bros getting in on the guest list does not count for anything...its all about making strangers give a crap.
Atta boy. Stand your ground.That really wont happen...we are what we are. I think we'd rather fail doing what we love than water it down to have more mass appeal. It is what it is. Maybe we build a following, maybe we get tired of it in two years.
I like saying "I have a face for studio, NOT STAGE!"Not friends, not family, not acquaintences, not strangers, not anyone. But I sell out the Bedroom venue every time I plug in.
Many of the places I play, I wouldn't let my family patronize. There is a place in Oakland where my son used to bring his partners on the college wrestling team when he came to see dad play. My wife used to come out to the nicer joints and my kids show up once in awhile. A brother is frequently the leader and singer in my musical ventures. I have a loyal following of friends from my old day job and student days, so I can at least raise a minyan at the bar.As some of you know, I am in a two piece rock comedy band. We are at that bottom of the barrel local level where no one knows you or cares that you exist. Worst is that it's impossible or nearly so to even get people we KNOW (friends, colleagues) to come. Like even just once. I get that you're not gonna come every time, but just the once would be appreciated.
"Maybe your band sucks."
No, I daresay we put on an entertaining show, the songs are catchy, and we play 'em good.
You guys in original bands experienced the same?
Totally normal.We are finding that getting better crowds/gigs seems to be (for us) about hooking up with similar but more well-known bands and getting exposed to their fans.